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by:
Michael Murray
Copyright 2005 Michael Murray
Have
you ever watched ABC’s hit TV show Lost? My favorite episode was titled
“Walkabout”. In it, we learn that the mysterious outdoorsman Locke was
actually paralyzed from the waist down before getting on the doomed 815
flight which crashed and, somehow, gave him the use of his legs back.
Locke
was actually planning to go on a Walkabout, which is an outdoor
adventure. But the leader, seeing Locke’s limitation, forbade him to
go. Angrily Locke shouted “Don’t tell me what I can’t do!” We then
flash forward to the plane crash, and see Locke on the ground, slowly
moving his legs. Then stand up. And walk.
You can probably guess
where I’m going with this, but before you write this off as another
“motivational” article, stay with me for a minute.
I’ve had many
“Locke Moments” in my life. Although I’ve never said his line to anyone
before, I’ve sure thought it. When you’re born with the umbilical cord
wrapped around your neck and barely live, you get used to people
telling you what you can’t do.
First, doctors told my parents
that if I did live I wouldn’t be active at all. I’d basically be a
vegetable. They told my parents to put me in a home. They didn’t
listen. “Don’t tell us what he can’t do!”
So, they took me home
and it turned out that mentally, I was fine. I had Cerebral Palsy and
doctors said I’d never walk. Well, they were right… for the first 7
years of my life I crawled around on my knees. I went through physical
therapy multiple times a week and was quite determined for a kid. At 7
years old, at my grandparents’ house, I took my first steps, to
everyone’s amazement, including myself. “Don’t tell me what I can’t do!”
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As
I got older, people urged me to get into technical side of computers
and get a good job. I hated that stuff. I wanted to be an entrepreneur.
People warned me about this. It’s too risky. But I pursued ventures
both online and offline, and I’ve made money in both. In fact, next
month I’ll be selling a 4-acre piece of land. I’ll net $144,000 on the
deal. Glad I took that risk. “Don’t tell me what I can’t do!”
What about you? Do you get ridiculed by your
friends and family when you tell them about your Internet dreams? It’s
very common. The simple fact is that loved ones who do this to you have
good intentions. They don’t want to see you get hurt, ripped off, or
scammed. They just, quite honestly, have no idea what they’re talking
about.
I’ve long since giving up on trying to explain what I do
online to friends and extended family. Even trying to explain simple
concepts such as email marketing can lead to comments such as “Oh, so
you spam people?” It’s frustrating, to say the least. It hurts because
these are the people who you’d expect to be on your side.
Don’t
let these people get you down. Ask yourself one question: Do I believe
that what I’m doing will eventually lead to financial success? Whether
it’s creating e-books, doing affiliate marketing, making content sites,
writing articles, or whatever it may be. If you can honestly say yes,
then keep plugging away and never give up.
The next time a loved
one says you’re crazy for trying to make money online, don’t get mad.
Don’t get defensive. You don’t have to defend anything. You know what
you’re doing. They have no clue. Just think about Locke, getting up
from that crash site and walking, and simply say “Don’t tell me what I
can’t do.”
About the author:
Michael Murray is
a 22-year old full-time Internet marketer and college student with
Cerebral Palsy who lives in sunny Orlando Florida. He recommends CBmall
for both newbies and advanced marketers as a way to earn autopilot
income. CBmall's automated marketing systems provide 15 powerful ways
to earn. Free audio and info at:
http://marketlikeapro.com/FreeReport.html
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